11/23/2008

Don't Dramatize - Act Naturally!

There is no sence in dramatizing things. The only effect you can get is fear and distrust.

You see somebody's mistake? Talk to him directly or try to correct softly - don't scream around producing nothing but nonproductive noise. Doing so you would definitely earn distrust - one would think you're trying to distinguish yourself at the other people's cost - and sure it is so, isn't it?

Coming into a new project, don't start criticizing aroung what doesn't suit you - be sure other people have already thought about alternatives and better solutions but were running into contraints. Don't think you are the Messiah which everybody has just waited for - in 99,999% of all cases you aren't any. And a real expert which has been awaited wouldn't even start crashing things. Not immediately.

Don't play missunterstood genius knowing and doing everything better than anybody else and feeling slowed down by those bad guys. If this is what you feel, consult phycologists. Otherwise just concentrate on doing your job well. The acceptation follows the deed, not the quick tongue and empty air.

Knowing things doesn't mean to know them exclusively. Understanding things doesn't mean to be the wiseman among the idiots. To have a loud voice doesn't mean to be allowed to scream. Dramatizing doesn't automatically mean to be more than a chip actor.

Don't dramatize - Act Naturally!

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